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Ego: ok so you say, I over reacted
but people should respect each other shouldn't they?
Superego: you are working with human beings, not saints, you should forgive people's occasional mistakes
Ego: why can't they just show respect like I do with them?
Superego: you know they're just trying to be casual, don't make things too serious
Ego: I know, but there are limits to that, I'm not against having a good time in a discussion,
but at least you need to be serious when certain things need to be done.
Superego: come on, they didn't mean it
Ego: still, no body cared, how can they be so cruel?
Superego: maybe they didn't know how to react
Ego: so I'm the one who's fucked up, who's in a bad mood when everyone else is enjoying the discussion, this is so unfair
Superego: there is no absolute fairness, and you should've protested in a more sophisticated way, like, be humorous and joke about it to get attention
Ego: I would if I could, I felt so humiliated that I couldn't control my impulse
Superego: try, try, try
you know you'll gonna face similar situations in the future, perhaps with more difficult people,
you gotta learn to get around these things
you've got to control yourself
but people should respect each other shouldn't they?
Superego: you are working with human beings, not saints, you should forgive people's occasional mistakes
Ego: why can't they just show respect like I do with them?
Superego: you know they're just trying to be casual, don't make things too serious
Ego: I know, but there are limits to that, I'm not against having a good time in a discussion,
but at least you need to be serious when certain things need to be done.
Superego: come on, they didn't mean it
Ego: still, no body cared, how can they be so cruel?
Superego: maybe they didn't know how to react
Ego: so I'm the one who's fucked up, who's in a bad mood when everyone else is enjoying the discussion, this is so unfair
Superego: there is no absolute fairness, and you should've protested in a more sophisticated way, like, be humorous and joke about it to get attention
Ego: I would if I could, I felt so humiliated that I couldn't control my impulse
Superego: try, try, try
you know you'll gonna face similar situations in the future, perhaps with more difficult people,
you gotta learn to get around these things
you've got to control yourself
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