Ego: ok so you say, I over reacted
but people should respect each other shouldn't they?
Superego: you are working with human beings, not saints, you should forgive people's occasional mistakes
Ego: why can't they just show respect like I do with them?
Superego: you know they're just trying to be casual, don't make things too serious
Ego: I know, but there are limits to that, I'm not against having a good time in a discussion,
but at least you need to be serious when certain things need to be done.
Superego: come on, they didn't mean it
Ego: still, no body cared, how can they be so cruel?
Superego: maybe they didn't know how to react
Ego: so I'm the one who's fucked up, who's in a bad mood when everyone else is enjoying the discussion, this is so unfair
Superego: there is no absolute fairness, and you should've protested in a more sophisticated way, like, be humorous and joke about it to get attention
Ego: I would if I could, I felt so humiliated that I couldn't control my impulse
Superego: try, try, try
you know you'll gonna face similar situations in the future, perhaps with more difficult people,
you gotta learn to get around these things
you've got to control yourself
- May 24 Wed 2006 20:34
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